I sent this tweet out (typo and all) prior to Bright Eyes going on Wednesday. You might ask yourself, why is this post titled “April 6, 2003″ – but I am guessing the image of that tweet gives you a clue. That is the first time Mary and I saw Bright Eyes (Crystal Ballroom in Portland, OR).
For some reason during the show on Wednesday I started thinking back to that first show. Mary and I hadn’t been dating long but I decided it was a good idea for us to head to Portland for the show, which was on a Sunday, and skip classes on Monday. We’d also stay at my parent’s house in Washougal (Mary had yet to meet them). To be honest, it might have been the second or third date we’d been on (excluding meeting each other at a bar or party). I don’t really remember much about the show or its set list, but I do remember sitting in the balcony of the Ballroom and drinking beers (something I still think about when I go to the balcony of the Ballroom), I remember my mom telling me she liked Mary, and I remember shyly singing along to music in the car ride away from and to Pullman (god forbid she heard my signing voice).
Flash forward 3,097 days. Mary and I are back at another Bright Eyes show. Sitting in a balcony (Paramount Theatre Seattle) and I’m getting sentimental. I’m not 100% certain how many times I’ve seen Bright Eyes (or Conor Oberst in some form), but it is around 10 (contrary to what that tweet said). We’ve seen him while we were barely dating, while we were in a long distance relationship, while we were living together, engaged, and now married. There’s even an awful version of me covering a Bright Eyes song (Take it Easy (Love Nothing)) for a Valentine’s Gift (cut me some slack, I was broke then).
I hadn’t thought about it until Wednesday night, but I can track our relationship through Bright Eyes albums, and I think that is pretty cool.
Just to bring the whole post home, video of First Day of My Life, the song we shared our first dance to at our wedding. “This is the first day of my life, I’m Glad I didn’t die before I met you. But now I don’t care I could go anywhere with you and I’d probably be happy.”








